February 1917 saw several Queensland residents leave the Lancaster Gate Boarding house at Hyde Park. Annie Wheeler and her daughter Portia, moved to Westminster Gardens on February 23rd and Belle Glasgow, wife of Brigadier General William Glasgow (see my previous post January 1917 – great thick flakes of snow) also moved around the same time.
By March 1st Belle was living at Battersea Gardens with a friend. Belle was fed up with boarding house life and William wanted more privacy when he was on leave. His letters at the end of February reveal a marriage under increasing strain. Belle had left their two young daughters, Joan and Beth, at home in Queensland and travelled to London to be closer to William who was commanding the 13th Battalion in France. They hadn’t seen each other since Christmas and Belle pressed Willian for details of his leave for most of February. Unfortunately plans kept changing. On February 20th, William told Belle, “am afraid I have nothing definite yet in the way of my leave” then two days later wrote to tell her he hoped to have leave on the 26th or 27th. Unfortunately, only two days later he told her “certain things have happened which may just stop my leave”.
Sometimes it is hard to empathise with Belle; she seems more concerned with her own comforts and problems. It’s as if she’s disengaged from the reality of the war, more interested in the trappings of London in war, the social life, the promotions, the pomp and ceremony. Maybe this is a deliberate coping strategy but it is impossible to judge her with any certainty because only William’s letters survive and while he makes references to her letters, he is the filter. Belle’s letters to her children do survive and while they reveal her character, they are letters to her children, not her husband.
We do know she didn’t hold back and expressed her feelings honestly. He tells her, “I have had for some time the feeling that coincides with what you are candid enough to say you were feeling.” William is also open in his letters. He received Belle’s letters of the 15th and 16th of February on the 21st February. Whatever she wrote upset him a great deal. “Both upset me more than I can say which is perhaps gratifying to you and makes me think that although our love for each other is all that it should be this continual cross purposes will go on for all time.”
Eventually he did get leave. On March 3rd he arrived in London and rather than stay at her flat they went to Devon to be alone. William told his daughters “When I came over to London I went to mother’s flat where she is very comfortable but we thought we would like a quiet time so came down here.” They stayed at a hotel right on the sea and being together, away from war, away from London soothed their troubles. Their physical reconnection was a very important part of their marriage. Imagine the strain on couples who never saw each other during war and whose letters took months rather than days to bring needed connection and intimacy.
Belle Glasgow’s letters are part of the SLQ collection. The image above is a postcard to her daughter of the view from her new flat – Battersea Park.